Wednesday, November 24, 2010

YouTube Special: How sexy is SxEPhil ?

I think we all associate, on one level or another, with the people that we watch on television, movies and YouTube. Since YouTube personalities are very accessible, we’re going to analyze them in a way that breaks down what makes them (or not) attractive. Then, we’re going to go a step further and suggest steps they could take to make themselves more attractive.

First, I’d like to pay a little respect to the YouTubers because they put their heart and souls on the line every day. It takes a lot of guts be in front of a camera of millions on a daily basis and they should know that this article is not meant to bash them in any way possible, but rather to use them as models for people who are in a similar place in their life. It is also important to note that all observations are based solely on the videos that they produce and this may or may not reflect their “real life” personality.

Let’s begin…

SxEPhil

First, we have Philip Defranco aka SxEPhil who is one of the most popular comedians on YouTube. He’s funny, ambitious and part of his success is that he really figured out how to capture people’s attention. Through the use of 3-4 minute clips discussing his thoughts on popular news.

So what makes SxEphil attractive?

The Good:

Well, first and foremost… he’s now famous because of his YouTube videos. I really can’t imagine him going anywhere without having people recognize him. Fame is massive social proof, and if everyone knows your name, then you must be important. But what if he didn’t have any fame or social proof. What if YouTube didn’t exist and you had never heard of him before, then what?

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

8 Ways to Feel Closer After Sex


Take a moment to think about what you and your guy usually do after sex. Chances are, it’s sleep, eat, or flip on the TV. Not exactly romantic, especially considering that the few hours afterward are one of the best times to bond. “When you orgasm, hormones are released that make you feel more connected,” says clinical sexologist Rachael Ross, MD, PhD. “Take advantage of that by doing things to prolong the feeling.” But that doesn’t mean intense conversations or eye gazing—little gestures can reap big benefits. Try these tips tonight.

1. If you’re hungry, forgo ordering a pizza and instead break out red wine and cheese. It will continue the sensual vibe you had going, and the antioxidants in the vino will increase blood flow, relaxing both of you.